WH Guide to Nutrition 101: It's not that complicated


I sat here staring at my computer for 3 hours this weekend, conflicted over what the topic of the week should be. Do you ever just have so much to say and yet somehow nothing at all? Welcome to my life.

When in the world of health, everything is fair game: sleep, exercise, hormones, mental health, loving your body, stress management, pollution, nontoxic products, etc. I definitely do not lack for topics to write on.

And yet, here I was, 2 am on a Saturday night lying awake with no inspiration teetering around in there….Just Friends reruns and my anxiety making me paranoid about whether I remembered to turn the oven off or not...I didn’t, by the way.



I try my best, guys.

So, ANYWAY, long story short, when I crawled back into bed, it hit me: FOOD, JESS. PLAIN OLD FOOD

If you've been reading so far, you'll know that's not entirely true. I discuss the importance of a nutrient-dense diet in almost every one of my posts. I haven’t yet given a breakdown of my Nutrition Philosophy and broken down my favorite sources of Nutrients.

Now, before you read this and just see FOOD RULES, please know this: I do not make arbitrary recommendations based on diet fads or faulty research.

My philosophy on food is fairly simple: NOURISH, NOT PUNISH. —> PARENT YOURSELF GENTLY TO NOURISHMENT.

This means that nourishment is my top priority with food, both for my actual body AND my soul AND my mind. It also means being a parent to myself and advocating for nourishment because I know it serves my body, which I respect and care for. This means not always being obsessed with having the ‘perfect’ food but realizing that in all situations, what is most nourishing to your WHOLE self can and will change. At a birthday party, having cake isn’t the most ‘nutrient dense’ thing, but If I want it, then having it nourishes my soul. Food is more than just fuel and medicine, it is celebration and community and fun and pleasure!

SO, with that being said, when I discuss NUTRITION and nutrient density, it is ALL within the realm of realizing that is not necessarily the only thing considered when choosing foods. Remember that you are a grown ass woman and make the best decisions FOR YOU and YOUR BODY. My favorite foods list is simply nutrient dense foods I have found to be helpful specifically with hormone health. And when I mention avoiding certain things like Soy and most conventional Dairy, it is NOT that these foods are ‘bad’, but that they have been shown to disrupt hormone function when ingested regularly in large quantities. There is no shame, Just an objective look at how we can optimize nutrition for healing while also remembering that at the end of the day, no matter WHAT you eat, You are not ‘bad’ or ‘good’ because of it, kapeesh?

With Nutrition, my aim is to optimize the number of nutrients I or my clients are receiving from each meal while also prioritizing satisfaction and what you are craving, so when we are faced with food choices, our mind will say “what will give me the highest source of natural, food-based vitamins and minerals”, NOT “what has less calories” or “what can I eat to get skinny”... That’s not a motivation for self-care or nourishment. That’s diet culture BS and is NOT WELCOME HERE.  

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Believe it or not, there IS a way to make healthy decisions that aren't ruled by wanting to manipulate your body size.  

I know, revolutionary for most of us, but trust me...It’s possible.


Before I discuss what foods I love for hormones, I need to preface with this one MAJOR caveat: the quality of your food matters. BIG TIME. NOT just for your body, but for the EARTH as well. I would argue, actually, that if we’re talking purely how food interacts with the body: the quality of food matters MORE than the quantity or types of food you are consuming.

When I talk about food sourcing, I'm talking about where your food came from. Where the meat was sourced, was it organic and grass-fed? Was the chicken you're eating fed antibiotics and kept in cages? Are the veggies you’re eating organic or no?. Are your cooking oils cold pressed and virgin, or heat refined? Believe it or not, there's a lot that goes into the preparation of our food before it hits our hands, and the closer it is to its natural and original state the better our bodies are able to digest and assimilate it.

This is why in my first ever published post, I mentioned the first thing I do with clients around food is to keep what they are eating the same, but elevate the same food's QUALITY. Change your normal ground beef to grass-fed beef, switch your LAYS potato chips to an organic brand that is baked in coconut oil instead. Same foods→ better quality. That change in of itself makes a LOAD of difference; because when you remove the preservatives, antibiotics, and pesticides, you are majorly lightening your toxic load which allows your body more room to function as it was meant to.


I'm going to organize this food discussion by using Macros. As I mentioned HERE: all nutrients are divided into MACRO (large) and MICRO(small) nutrients. Macros being Fats, Carbs, and Protein; and Micronutrients being things like zinc, iron, selenium, etc. Both are important, guys. And getting proper amounts of ALL are the foundation of my nutrition philosophy. 


I recommend getting the majority of your protein from pasture-raised animal products:

  • Beef

  • Moose (my personal favorite)

  • Lamb

  • Goat

  • Chicken

  • Turkey

  • Duck

  • Pasture-raised Eggs (EAT THE YOLKS)

  • Bone Broth (surprisingly high in protein)

  • Organ meats of any aforementioned animals (follow my Instagram for tips on how to sneak these suckers in without actually tasting them!)

  • Wild Caught seafood that is low in mercury: Salmon, herring, sardines, cod, and tilapia (psst--Wild Planet has amazing BPA free canned fish and it's sold at Costco for cheaper!)

  • *For those that tolerate dairy: grass-fed & raw yogurt, kefir, hard cheeses, and grass fed whey protein isolate. Although, if you struggle with digestive issues, skin irritation, or autoimmunity, I usually recommend to steer clear of these until healed or in remission.

Protein that can irritate hormonal balance

  • Soy products: Learn why I’m cautious with soy for women HERE

  • Non-organic, conventionally raised animal products

  • Poorly sourced/highly processed whey or plant protein powders

  • Farm raised fish

What about legumes and soy protein? All my vegetarians ask

Okay, I may make a few enemies when I say this, but I actually do not recommend meatless diets for the majority of my clients. Abstaining from meat for ethical or religious reasons is one thing, but if you are walking around refusing to eat steak because you once read a book that said meat causes cancer…..let me break it to you right now:


The debate around meat (particularly red meat) is at an all-time high with documentaries like “What the Health” coming out every year. But I have some very big problems with these: the first being there isn't discrimination between “meat”. If we are talking about antibiotic pumped, soy-fed cows/chickens that are raised in horrible, unethical conditions, then yes, meat like that can be connected to health problems. That meat, however, is not all meat. And has a VERY different nutritional and ethical profile than animals raised on pasture ... Again, I say, QUALITY MATTERS. I don’t appreciate the fear mongering that happens in a lot of these anti-meat debates and documentaries.

Another major issue I’ve noticed is the makers of these films have blatant agendas that lead them to cherry pick studies that support their claims and ignore those which don’t. This is something called “confirmation bias”, and it does not make for trustworthy sources. 

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As a matter of fact, the trend of demonizing saturated fat was started by a man named Ancel Keys, who we NOW know was sponsored by companies like Kellog's (ones that profit off the population eating mostly grains) and who used his influence to push his own financial agenda. (For an unbiased look at this historic shift in our dietary recommendations, read this PHENOMENAL book) I’m not saying being a vegatarian is better or worse, if it’s YOUR plate then it’s YOUR business , I’M just saying that this vendetta against meat and meat eaters needs to be re-evaluated…

When looking at the scientific literature, you can't take everything at face value. You have to look at who was sponsoring the research, how well isolated the study is, missing cofactors, etc. For example, the big “7 country study” that Keys originally used as the backbone of the ‘no meat’ argument in the 60’s compared 7 different countries diets and their rates of heart disease. It looked like meat intake correlated with higher rates of heart disease. But, later we realized that the study didn’t take into account sugar, and other elements of diet that can ALSO be correlated to health disturbances when ingested in high quantities. Still... that study sent the US into a low fat no meat tailspin for a good 40 years.

My point is this: I respect nutrition choices. Always. You do you girl. And there is no shame in experimenting to see what works for you. However, if you are allowing fear mongering or faulty science to influence your decision to not eat meat, I want to send some caution your way. Don’t give into fads, flashy documentaries, or fear mongering to make nutrition decisions. YOU are your best data on what does and doesn’t work for you.

What I WILL say now is there are a few populations of peeps I encourage exercising extra precaution with meat-free diets:

  1. Those with mental illnesses

  2. Those with a family history of mental illnesses

  3. Diabetics/prediabetics

  4. Women with PCOS

  5. Those with adrenal dysfunction

  6. Women with insufficient hormone production, anovulation, or hypothalamic amenorrhea (missing period)


I can’t tell you how happy I am that we are out of the “fat makes you fat” era.

Not only is Fat NOT an insulting term (it’s literally an adjective and part of the body we all have, we need to stop stigmatizing it), but this fear of dietary fat is COMPLETELY unfounded and actually just a result of the wave of weight stigma we carry.

So Yeah...we’re over that. It's dead. And I reserve the right to get violent with anyone that’s trying to bring that back.

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ill cut you

 To learn more about the importance of WHY you need dietary fat in the first place, I talk about that here.

*Note: Quality ESPECIALLY matters with fats, because animals (including humans) store toxins in their fat, meaning if you are eating fatty cuts of meat from conventional grain-fed animals, chances are you are also consuming all the toxins they have stored in their body as well, especially if they lives a stressful life with elevated levels of cortisol in their system. If you eat HEALTHY animals who grazed on a pasture and had a healthy life, you are going to be consuming all the fat-soluble vitamins their grass diets gave them, like vitamin A and K2. I know I sound like a broken record, but QUALITY actually does make a difference!

When it comes to figuring out which fats are healthy and which are not, you want to ask yourself 2 questions: 1) Is it the least processed form and 2) How stable is it?

Regarding quality, You want to grab cold pressed, organic oils every chance you get. Oils labeled 'Refined' or "Heat processed' have been deodorized and are stripped of the nutrients found in the original, so if optimzing nutrients if the goal (which, for the sake of this article it is), then it’s not the ideal option.

Cold pressed, organic, sustainably sourced, please. ONLY THE BEST FOR YOU LADIES.

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Regarding stability, having stable fats is incredibly helpful for hormones! This means they won't oxidize in your body, and therefore cause oxidative damage to your cells. How stable it is comes down to some complicated chemistry, but essentially there are 3 kinds of fats you need to concern yourself with :

  1. Saturated: the most stable. These are your ride or dies, always there, never moving BFFs→ grassfed butter, ghee, coconut oil, MCT oil, sustainably sourced palm oil, sustainably raised animal fats from beef, lamb, and goat.

  2. Monounsaturated: averagely stable. These are your solid-but-won’t-help-you-bury-a-body girls→ Cold Pressed olive oil, most nuts, avocados, and avocado oil. Protect their stability by using cold only-->no cooking.

  3. Polyunsaturated fats: the most unstable. These are the Regina Georges of the fat world-- Don’t trust them, don’t tell them your secrets--> The cool kids refer to these as ‘PUFAS’: Canola oil, vegetable oil, safflower oil, grapeseed oil, rapeseed oil, margarine, and buttery spreads. If there’s anything Mean Girls taught us, it’s that eating lunch with Regina on the daily might have some unfortunate consequences;)

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         *There is a subcategory of PUFAS that are important-->Omega Fatty Acids. Both Omega 3 and 6 are important for health, particularly the RATIO of one to the other. By using NON PUFA oils , and including Omega 3 rich seafood 1-2x a week, you'll most likely be doing enough to keep those ratios in check.

Fats I DONT recommend as the basis of a nutrient dense diet geared towards hormone health:

  • PUFA cooking oils (see above)

  • ANY oil that has turned rancid

  • Trans Fats....That's a hard no, buh bye

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get rid of it


Oh yes, girls, I'm saving the best for last. And by best, I mean the most controversial get-everyone-up-in-arms-with-food-fear kind of best. 

I have seen more women than I can count (including myself) join the low-carb party, only to end up with decreased thyroid function, poor workout recovery, slower metabolism, and stressed adrenals. If you are a woman of childbearing age, I stand by my recommendation to consume AT LEAST 100 grams of whole food carbohydrates a day. This is a minimum, folks, as in DESIGNED TO SURPASS for most of us; if you exercise, are pregnant/trying to get pregnant, under a lot of stress, or find yourselves craving carbs more often, you need to titrate that up.  

I will not deny there are populations of people that can benefit from a low carb (or “ketogenic” diet), but those are generally dealing with neurodegenerative brain disease, Autism or ADHD, or are prescribed it for short term medicinal purposes under the care of a practitioner that can monitor it all. Either way, If you are an active, menstruating woman, CARBS ARE YOUR FRIEND.  

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My favorite carbs that I find work well for most everyone are starchy veggies. Because of their high soluble fiber load as well as complex glucose molecules, they are slower to reach your bloodstream AND feed your gut bacteria. However, despite what I say on Instagram, there is more to life than sweet potatoes. So here are ALL awesome options to start with that not only hit your carb need BUT give hormone loving nutrients as well :

  • Sweet potatoes

  • White potatoes

  • Yucca

  • Cassava

  • Taro

  • Winter Squash (acorn, butternut, pumpkin, etc)

  • Parsnip

  • Plantains

  • ALL fruit

  • Organic, properly prepared sourdough bread (won't work for everyone!)

  • Organic, minimal ingredient gluten-free toast

  • Ancient Grains like Quinoa, Teff, Amaranth, wild rice, and rolled oats (not for the gluten sensitive)


These are foods I encourage ABUNDANT consumption of that I don't count in the macro category.

  1. GREEN VEGGIES. Eat them, all day every day, as much as you can get. Seriously, these are nature's multivitamin, and there should NOT be a limit to these, no matter how many keto dieters swear spinach is a carb...... IT'S NOT A CARB SUSAN (and even if it was, #teamcarbs)

  2. Probiotic foods: kimchi, sauerkraut, kefir, kombucha, beet kvass, grass-fed yogurt

  3. Bone broth: good health starts in the gut...and gut healing starts with broth. Really, just drink it.

  4. Water...... need I say more?

WHEW. That's a lot of words right there...even for me. I tried to make this as organized and simple as possible....Not sure if I succeeded.

Please remember that discussing Nutrition is a helpful, educational way to serve our body better, NOT a way to manipulate or shame ourselves into attaching morality to certain foods. Food can be incredible medicine, but it is also more than that. Enjoy foods that aren't on this list, because you have the right to choose, always. Here's to choosing food based on what serves us and not what shames us!

Live Whole,


Are there any foods you're surprised are/aren't on this list? What are your FAVORITE nutrient dense foods? Let me know below!